10 Signs Your Boyfriend Doesn’t Really Like You

Just because he do professhis love for you every chance he gets doesn’t neccessary mean he is crazy about you, typically, a guy would say anything just to get physical with a girl. Yeah i know, it is sad. So, without risking the embarrassment of asking or confronting him, would you like to know if he really likes you or just stringing you along? Here are 10 Signs Your Boyfriend Doesn’t Really Like You.

1. He never calls you

He never calls

Now this is different from him seeing your missed call and then calling you back -after several hours- When a guy don’t truly give a damn about you, he will never bother to call you. Never. He’s just going to leave all the calling to you.

2. He forgets important dates and isn’t too apologetic

He always forgets important dates

Considering the fact that every guy know how much this upset girls. We always try to remember but when forget we are always very apologetic. 

So if your boo is in a habit of forgetting important dates -like your birthday etc-and isn’t too apologetic, it means he doesn’t give a hoot about you or your feelings.

3. He prefers to hang out with his friends and only remembers you when he is horny

He prefers to hang out with his friends
Does he hang out with his friends a lot more than he hangs with you? Does he only come to you when he is horny? 

4. He doesn’t remembers the details of the things you tell him because he rarely listens to what you say

Signs he doesn't really like you

When we like someone, we can’t get enough of that person. We want to know every detail, every story, even the insignificant ones. If a guy asks you a lot of questions about yourself and your life and shows a genuine interest in who you are and what you like, he is investing in you.

Men who aren’t serious about a girl make a point of not asking for too many details about her life so as not to get attached.

5. Brags about you

He never Brags about you

If he is serious about you, he is proud of you, and he will make a point of being near you to introduce you to his friends, acquaintances etc telling them all about you and your accomplishments every chance he gets. But if he isn’t serious about you, you may never even get to meet any of his friends talk more of to gist with them.

6. Takes hours to return your missed call or text you back

He doesnt really like you
Did he take hours to call back? Did he completely forget to text back? If you’re just someone he is having temporary fun with, he isn’t concerned about you getting pissed about those things. (But if he makes a point of apologising, then maybe you are not someone he is willing to let go off easily, but when the apologies become too much my dear he doesnt care).

7. Your subconscious tells you

He doesnt like you

Our subconscious was given to us for a reason, to tell us things our ordinary eyes can’t see.

So if your subconscious, mind or whatever it is called  keep telling you that he doesn’t really like you. Then he probably doesn’t.

8. He Never Tries To Impress You

Signs that shows he doesnt really like you

We impress our girls only when we like them and want them to see us as interesting etc. 

But when a guy isn’t interested in a girl, he won’t care how she sees him.

That said, Does he tell you stories that make him look funny, adventurous, strong? If so, then he probably wants to catch your eye.

9. Every Hangout Equals hook up

He doesnt appreciate you
For you guys, every and i mean every hang out means hooking up.
Every single time when he meets you or take you out, you guys hook up. It only means one thing, He meets you because he wants to get physical to you.

10. He Never Takes You Out

He never takes you on a date
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No dates or movies, no dinner, no random rendezvous instead his idea for a date means going to his place or yours. He doesn’t really want to date with you.

Uzonna Anele
Uzonna Anele
Anele is a web developer and a Pan-Africanist who believes bad leadership is the only thing keeping Africa from taking its rightful place in the modern world.

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