Top 7 Reasons Why Your Man Will Cheat On You

There are so many reasons why a man would want to cheat on his partner.(Read 7 unarguably reasons why women cheat) Sometimes, it’s done out of spite, other times it is done because he lacks the will power to turn down a presented opportunity.
Here are the top 7 reasons why your man will cheat on you.


1. They Crave Intimacy/Appreciation

Even though most won’t admit it, all men are suckers for intimacy and love been appreciated.
So when couples drift apart over time and don’t communicate about their lack of intimacy, some men think it’s easier to just cheat instead of talking about it.

2. Men want Variety

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Some men will cheat even though they love the woman they’re with. Many Men have admitted to cheating because they crave variety, and new experiences”. what is it like to be bed a fat girl, slim girl, short girl, etc and the list goes on.

3. His Libido Needs A Boost

Now we all know that when a relationship starts you can’t get enough of each other at the beginning. But after spending a few years together, things begin to feel more comfortable, the sex becomes less frequent and intense and before long his libido diminishes. When this happens, Some men boost their libido by going elsewhere to find it.

4. He Lacks The Willpower To Say No

Most guys love been in a committed relationships and those that are not in one strive for such relationships and value them deeply. But due to the lack of will-power, most men will eventually give into a sexual affair, “simply because the opportunity presented itself and they weren’t strong enough to say no.”

5. He Wants To Feel Wanted

Everyone wants to feel wanted regardless of age, gender or occupation. Men are no different. When he starts feeling unwanted in a relationship and starts feeling like he is taken for granted, that’s when he goes in search of a new relationship, because in a new relationship suddenly he matters again.

6. Its In his Nature


Say whatever you want, believe whatever you want to believe, it won’t change the fact that Men are polygamous by nature and are monogamous today because monogamy has come to dominate human society. (thanks to religious groups etc).

Some Men are faithful today because they have the will power to fight their nature.

7. Because He Is Insecure

When your man starts feeling insecure, he uses flirtation, and extramarital sex as a way to feel good about himself, to reassure himself that he is still desirable.

Uzonna Anele
Uzonna Anele
Anele is a web developer and a Pan-Africanist who believes bad leadership is the only thing keeping Africa from taking its rightful place in the modern world.


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